Alan Webster Neill
Independent
Mr. A. W. NEILL (Comox-Alberni):
I would only reiterate what I said before, namely, that I am not opposed to divorce. I believe there are situations in which it is justified. Scripture says: "Be not unequally yoked together." I would not suggest a procedure such as is followed in the country to the south of us, where a man or a woman may obtain a divorce from his or her helpmate for some childish or trivial reason, and call it cruelty, or something of that kind. It may be said that the wife would not allow the husband to take so many lumps of sugar in his coffee, or something of that sort. Under certain circumstances, I think divorce is a wise procedure. I believe, however, that before the final decree is issued, every effort should be made to reconcile the parties.
The leader of the opposition (Mr. Hanson) has stated that it is necessary to give relief to people living in Quebec, where the legislature appears to be unwilling to pass the necessary provincial laws. Those people have a right to be protected. But when it comes to procedure in parliament which, of course, includes action by both houses, I support the suggestion of the leader of the opposition that it ought not to be necessary to have two courts. As the senators are worthy and reputable men-and most of them are men of long experience-why not have one court, and put the full responsibility on them. Under those circumstances they would know that they would be wholly responsible. We have at present a sort of divided procedure. They may be a little careless or a little lax, and say, "Oh wrell, if any injustice is being
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done, the lower house will remedy it." But if they knew their decision was final, as in the case of the civil courts, possibly they would take more care, and would see that wise decisions were made. Also they might appoint a committee to interview the people concerned and see if a reconciliation might be brought about. Sometimes parties can be convinced to come together again and, unquestionably, that is much better than dividing the family. We see that done quite commonly in the United States where, on occasions, people remarry more than once. They may marry, obtain a divorce, remarry, sometimes divorce again and remarry again. The fact that they look at divorce in that light and trivial way is some indication as to why we should be more particular in our handling of the matter.
Speaking earlier this afternoon, I referred to the importance to be attached to the disposition of the children. It must be decided which of the parents is to have them, no matter which is guilty, because it is not always the guilty one who is the cause of the divorce. There is such a thing as provocation by a bullying husband or a nagging wife, but the decision must be made as to which one is better able to take care of the children. One of the cases before the house this afternoon was a case in which seven children between the ages of three and ten years were involved. What is to become of them? That is a matter which should be given the greatest consideration. No consideration is given to it in the other house; they do not have to. The law does not require it, but I say that some care should be taken. If the older people make wrecks of their lives, that is no reason why they should be permitted to wreck the lives of their children, who should be brought up under decent conditions.
I believe, however, that the principle of divorce should be carried out, with all due precautions. As the leader of the opposition has suggested: Why have two courts? Why not have only one, and place full responsibility on it? We find that if full responsibility is placed at one point, greater care is taken than if it is shared. When there is a division of responsibility, someone is always passing the buck to somebody else and saying, "Oh, well, it is going to the other chamber, anyway."